Want to know what the problem is do a fourth step. What is it that scares you? Why do things just not work out for me? Why is everyone against me? We found through working a 4th that we where not really looking for an answer at all. Not only where we not looking for

Addicts / Alcoholics are the most selfish people you will ever run into. It is not by choice they are simply so scared of not getting there needs met that that has become the only thing they can think about. This does not make them bad, evil, or sinful but we have realized that they

Addicts / Alcoholics are the most selfish people you will ever run into. It is not by choice they are simply so scared of not getting there needs met that that has become the only thing they can think about. This does not make them bad, evil, or sinful but we have realized that they

My brain is trying to kill me. I dont know why I keep messing everything up. Why am I so afraid? Will this ever change? Whats wrong with me? Many of us have asked these very questions and found no answers. Perhaps it was that we where to busy running to find them or perhaps

This step must be taken 100%… or so they say. The issue really is is that there is no half measures here. We either understand that we have a disease or we continue doing what we have done. We have no choice in the matter. Or fear based mind is power and knows how to

Having completed step one if we where honest we have discovered that we have a disease. A disease that clouds all of our perceptions with fear. Addicts / Alcoholics are fear based individuals. How this came to be is not longer something we care to discuss but we know that something else must be allowed

Find god. In step three we begin forming a relationship with a higher power. The first two steps have shown us how to get out of the way and let something else guide our daily lives. We have discovered that we did the best we could and came up short with in the life skills