Like many of us I my childhood was less then wonderful. I once heard some say in a meeting :How do you know your family was dysfunctional” and my response was “I was there.”…
This is a very painful topic for all of us. This pain is so old and nasty that just looking at it can cause us to regress into the state of mind we had at the time. This is not about how to go back and reconcile those old wounds. We are not therapists. Therapists have tools at there disposal to safely help someone find closer with this old stuff and not cause more damage.
What this is about is what I have learned from my parents and mostly my father. I learned that his suffering was not in vein if I learn a different way to live. He may not have shown me how to live life but he showed me how I didnt want to live it. And for that I am grateful.
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